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OH and by the way, why haven't you posted anything to me? I would love to have your input on what you think of my sitch up to this. I think you've been around for most of it...

Cathy



to be honest, I get so overwhelmed when I stop by that I don't know who to read and who not to read. When I first came to piecing it was quiet...one could stay on the first page for weeks while others were posting cause there was only like 5 of us here...now I get dizzy. It's not that I don't want to check in on others it is as I said I don't know where to begin but now that you've put a little fire under my butt I'll have to put my sneakers on and take a walk on over for a visit..but first I must go out and play with the kiddos.

oh ya and to all....so it has taken me a while to fully grasp the concept that my happiness has nothing to do with my m. Yes I am happy with my h and he is happy with me but the emptiness or longing I often feel is not always related to him (though I often blame him for it, shame on me) Any sahm (stay at home mom) can understand where most of my frustrations come from. It's not easy to remain a hot little chiqita while your busy making pb+j and singing choo choo chuga chuga big red car (the wiggles for all you non parents or with those that have grown) all day. and then of course there is that struggle with...can I still be "cool" and have a life even though I'm a mommy and a wife??? the answer is a definite YES! though I still struggle with some guilt/resentment at times.

LL