Not going to lie, Zues. I have recently had fleeting thoughts of giving up on M, but I quickly bounce out of it. Mostly, because I don't like this current version of H, but realize he us not himself right now. Just having hard time with the lies.
Need to just focus primarily on me this week.
Just remember, if you gave up and left it would end the 'limbo'...but you'd have to go through a HUGE grieving process. You are grieving now anyway...you might still be fully detached and ok again in the same time frame whether you give up or not. Point is, there is no rule that says you'll go through more pain by DBing, or that you'll be done suffering quicker if you give up. In fact, I think we on DB forums get healthier, stronger, and faster than those who cut and run.
You're not sticking it out for him...you're doing it for you. So you can be the person you want to be. That's even more important than whether he can pull his $hit together.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
