A) D7 has her end-of-year show this week. WW wants us to sit together as a family and seems to think it's entirely natural. I didn't want to, but now I'm not sure. It might be better for D3 and D7 to see their parents together. But I didn't want to sit with her because I don't want the awkwardness, nor the conversations. Also, I've become quite demonstrative since BD and fully expect to cry a good bit when I'll see D7 sing her bit of Les Miz, in part because I'm so hurt that I lost half of my kids. So, is it better if I agree and sit with her?
What does D7 want? IMO, if you're not ready to sit with her and be cordial and respectful, don't do it. There will come a time when you are able to sit there and have a "normal" conversation and you both are there solely for D7. If this is solely because of pride and awkwardness, and D7 wants you there, then I say swallow the pride and do it for D7. I guess bottom line, if D7 wants it, and you are able, then go for it. Everything is for the betterment of kids.
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14
