Okay, so not counting the points that obviously don't have any merit, are some of the complaints she has valid? Be brutally honest with yourself.
"Her "complaints" now are that we don't have enough in common,"
Is that true?
"I don't dress well,"
Is this true?
"we aren't compatible, she lied to herself that she loved me..."
This part is the stuff to ignore.
"oh, and I didn't fold my clothes properly"
True?
"and sometimes let food go bad..."
True?
"(translation: I'm lazy and I don't value her financial contributions.)"
That's mindreading on your part, I don't know you, but from what you wrote, i have know idea how you assumed she thought that from your dressing bad, etc.
however you mentioning the financial contribution is interesting. Have you not praised her for that?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
