Hello claire7 - This is a post with a lot of strength. You seem to be taking yet another step to be happy, to be in control of your life. I like how you're looking for ways to be less resentful of your H, because your resentment hurts you more than it hurts him anyway. I hope you'll come to post under the Surviving the D section because, even though I know little about this one, this community can always be supportive and helpful. Take care.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
