Well lawyer said that everything looks to be in my favor. He said that my plan sounded like a good idea. I told him i would file for legal separation first. That way it might be easier on the kids. It will head to divorce more than likely. He said that with my good work history, home environment, not trying to keep the kids from mom, them growing up here, school is here and I have a house and I am not a phone sex operator, things look good to keep the kids here with me. He said typically when dealing with visitation this far away, he would set it up for about 5 weeks during the summer and probably Christmas break. If she wanted to come up here to see them that would be fine.
I can start the paperwork right away. That way when she gets back, there would be a temporary visitation order in place so she can take them from the end of June till the first week in August. His rates are reasonable. So I think I am set. He suggested that I notify her what I am doing once she gets out to CA. I wanted to think on the way home. And I think this will be for the best. Especially for protecting my kids and my rights.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
