Diff,

There are several gay women here in DB. HeavyD is here in the Newcomer's thread and Jer's over in the MLC forum. I am a gay woman as well.

To get more traffic to your post, you would want to post to other threads that resonates with you and say "hi, am here to support you."

Keep posting here and we'll all come here to support you. DBing is a hard, tough, and LONG slog. It isn't for the faint of the heart. Even if you feel like throwing in the towel at times, there's always the next day to keep chugging along.

There is one happy story about a gay couple that happily reconciled and the poster's name is RealityTrip (RT). RT's W had OW and moved out of the house. Several months of DBing, RT's W broke up with the OW and moved back home. She no longer posts here. Cadet will come by later to link RT's threads for your perusal. Yeah, more "homework"! smile