Sorry you are here. But you are at a great place for some info. Not that I am the master know all of MLC ... I do think I fell into the trap of finding the stages, plotting my W's course and trying to figure out when she was out of one tunnel and into the next ... all wasted energy on my part looking back, did not help me detach nor focus all that wasted energy on myself like I should have done.... I did do alot of self work .. but that would have been more honestly.
I read somewhere to never trust the touch n go's that were withing the 2yr time period of BD, the closer to BD the more untrusting you should be, I like you went through a few of these.... no OM and she would touch base, fix things with OM and back off she would go. Its extremely dishearteing and frustrating ... a few reasons they do this ... basically making sure you are right where they left you.
Just given the time line ... I would guess more a touch n go than a Reconnection, it takes alot of time for them to process things if its truly MLC.
