Yes, I've ordered the book (DB) and hoping it arrives today. Even without reading it, though, I'm getting the gist of things I need to do. We met while she was working overseas. Until this past August, she was often away. But when she was here, we spent almost all our time together. Since she came home to start a new business last year, we have been working on it together and spending almost all our time together, in a bit of a stressful pressure cooker sort of environment. As I look back on things now, I see that we never talked enough about our relationship - but she is Albanian and there are cultural challenges there. Her "complaints" now are that we don't have enough in common, I don't dress well, we aren't compatible, she lied to herself that she loved me... oh, and I didn't fold my clothes properly and sometimes let food go bad... (translation: I'm lazy and I don't value her financial contributions.)
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
