Forgot to add. So the MC thing which has been discussed here, I have not located a MC who seems to be a proper fit, AND have openings for our schedule. My gut/faith tells me this is not by accident. W and I touched on MC last night, we talked a bit and I had told her that I agreed we needed it, but as I had shared before was frustrated that "All the good ones seem to be taken" so the search continues. She brought up the Retrouvaille and I said that I felt it really could not hurt but we have S to figure out where he could stay ... again another M issue that we really need to figure out .... that spun into a convo about making friends, and actually working on those new relationships... being more social ...something we both want. Wait...so SHE brought it up and you didn't (discreetly) RUN to the phone to sign up? You brought up reasons NOT to go??
She is pursuing you, imo, and you are being stand offish. I get that, affair and all....
But then, you are here on this "Divorce Busting" site.
What is it, that you really want, "from this day forward"?
-- So ^^^ surprised me ... again .. her showing effort and thought into this, looking toward the future ... the talk this morning was like I had my W back for a minute. Time will tell and we will see where this all goes
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
