Thank you for sharing your thoughts here about your decision to pursue D. We all know you have not taken it lightly and were deliberate with it before proceeding with a D.
Yeah, I think your W is stuck and refuses to take your feelings/thoughts into account about her employment choices. Sometimes you've just got to draw the line and say, "this ain't working for me any longer..."
Sure, you want to be with a woman who has a healthy sense of self and wants to be with you. She's out there somewhere.
I am telling you that there are MANY happy remarriages....contrary to the same ol stats that are trotted out to emphasizes that second and third marriages don't last. Hogwash! I've seen many remarriages last to the end...and quite happily.
Thank You Wonka!
The hardest part through this will be my time away from my kids. But I will have to deal with it. I tuck my kids in every night and we say our prayers together. My D always tries to sneak downstairs and scare me!
I asked WW last night where this house is she is planning on renting. She said she has to go look at it before signing a lease. So her plan was to take S7 with her with no where to live yet. I told her it is a better idea if she goes out and gets herself set up and than comes to get them the end of June.
I just hope I get a good attorney that doesn't just take my money and do a crappy job. I have had those before. I have had a heck of a time even talking to anyone. Finally this guy called me back and explained things to me more on the phone. And he said we can meet today for free to discuss the case. The others just said to pay the retainer and they will meet after that and they will deal with it all. I did not feel very comfortable with that. So we will see how it goes.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
