Wise words!! and the best part of it is I know it to be true. It is more the negative self talk that is hard to deal with than the actual "no action". It is the things I convince myself to be true as a result of h's occassional indifference. Well if I can convince myself these negative thoughts/feelings (that I'm undesireable, unsexy, unfeminine, h doesn't really love me etc) are true, I can also convince myself they are not. I know them to be untrue..every last one of them...it is just what I start to tell myself when h isn't paying attention to me in that way..."if he thought I was X he'd do Y" shame shame on me.
anywho thanks for dropping by, I always appreciate a visit.
