Thank you for sharing your thoughts here about your decision to pursue D. We all know you have not taken it lightly and were deliberate with it before proceeding with a D.
Yeah, I think your W is stuck and refuses to take your feelings/thoughts into account about her employment choices. Sometimes you've just got to draw the line and say, "this ain't working for me any longer..."
Sure, you want to be with a woman who has a healthy sense of self and wants to be with you. She's out there somewhere.
I am telling you that there are MANY happy remarriages....contrary to the same ol stats that are trotted out to emphasizes that second and third marriages don't last. Hogwash! I've seen many remarriages last to the end...and quite happily.