Wife wants to reconcile, but I told her it's too late. (Dec 2014) She did too much! Why waste another 10yrs of my life knowing the possibility of her having another affair is high.... DB works! Glad I came here 14month ago, and big thank you to the vets and everyone on this site. So kindly hard me to your list of letting go. I'm at peace with my decsseion.
Real JOY is not something you have in your hands ; it is something you carry in your heart. Share it and it will come back to you a hundred fold. Know often that the greatest JOY comes from going through tough times and growing stronger and BETTER (not bitter!)
Sometimes you have to SMILE by FAITH. If you smile by FAITH, soon the JOY will FOLLOW. Living in a favorable and unfavorable situation is called part of LIVING. But SMILING in all those situations is called ART of LIVING.