Hey Fran,

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This is what is working for me except it is not a deliberate 180, I just happen to feel that way at the moment and voila! H is interested ALL the time - LOL.




That is what I DON'T want but is what tends to happen. When I finally get so agrivated and turned off by thoughts of him finally initiating I don't want him to. Of course I always end up giving in though.

Wish it were simple, Wish we all could just be content and say to ourselves "It could be worse" but I know that it could be better just don't know how to tackle this one issue.

The real crappy thing is this issue breeds other issues.

LL