I feel the same way but I realize that all of my placating efforts of the past is what got me to the present. So, for me personally, I am changing my tune. I am so tired of having to cater to her and her "moods". And with this blatantly disrespectful affair, well that is just over the top definat. Again, for me personally, I don't even answer texts unless they are kid related. I am a busy lady with so much going on (right!).
It seems to me that she still has you hooked by telling you to respond quicker to her texts (jump through the hoops faster Kramer, you are too slow, who is she to dictate anything to you after her continued terrible and disrespctful behaviors). That's how it reads to me.
But again, what do I know, I am just another lady with a crazy MLC W who is thowing away me and our kids after 20 years for a creep.
