The only thing that has happened is one night W came home from work, drew herself a bath and took a long soak. She had the door open to the bathroom. I was watching a movie and I noticed the door had been shut. No big deal I thought. Then I heard loud thumping coming from the bath. I paused the TV and listened for it again. Thump thump thump. I thought WTF... so I went to the door and asked if she was alright. No answer. I asked again and no answer. I opened the door and W is sitting in the tub with the lights off crying. I asked her what the thumping was and she said nothing. I asked if she was alright and when she answered yes, I closed the door and went back to my movie. She seemed fine but still a little teary eyed when she got out but I didn't comment.
I've been lacking in my GAL attempts.
I have been really good about not pursuing my W though (aside from the asking if she was ok in the bath. Don't know if that's considered pursuing or not). That's one area I've been able to make some head way in. No texts, emails, starting convos at home etc. W has upped the amount she texts throughout the day. Still not a lot, but more than before.
Last I heard, W was planning on being out of the house by the end of the month. She must be a super packer though because I haven't seen a box one.
My PMA has been holding up real well. Always keeping a smile on my face even when she's in the other room grumbling about something.
There has been zero R, D, S talk.
I'm thinking this is the calm before the storm, but who knows. I'm trying not to have any kind of expectations, but it's hard to keep the thoughts of how it was and how it could be again out of my mind.
Just gonna keep on keeping on.
Hope everyone has a great week!
M30 W30 Married: 1 year Together: 4 years No kids 3 Dogs
