Thank you so much CaliGuy! I understand what you mean by adding fuel to the fire. I will not say those types of things to W.

In regards to OM (if there is one), I see what you mean about the big picture. In the end, it falls on me and i really can just focus on myself and improving my life. I know my actions brought W to this point of wanting to find OM, but it does kill inside. The thought of it is painful, but i need to look at myself. Thanks again, CaliGuy for the advice!


Me-35 W-34
Married 6/2011 T-6 years
S-2
BD-3/22/2015