Trying to Follow DB & DR (4)

[Miman2]

Well I'm back from my travels.

Thanks Cadet, Wonka, and Vanilla.

It's no problem Wonka, I understand people get busy with real life as well.
I'll have to try to address all the points you brought up in another posting.

My trip went well. Didn't have nearly as much of a breakdown moment as I did last time, of course I remembered to take my meds this time too so that might've helped.

First met with my councilor on Friday. I told him about being served the previous Friday and how I am taking it. He thought I was handling everything perfectly and even started to suggest that we didn't need to meet anymore after maybe another session or two. I told him there were still things I would like to discuss/work through and he said sure, but I won't see him again for almost 2 weeks.

After that I met with the lawyer. They thought that it might be more worth it for me to try to handle everything myself. I got another call from the sheriff while I was meeting with the lawyer. I didn't get to talk to him, the lawyer called him back but only got his voicemail.

Went to CoDA Friday night and shared my updates. I didn't break down in sharing this time. There was someone new to the group who was going through her own divorce process. We wound up talking a lot, she seemed to be interested in my sitch but she kept referring to me as a cheater and swinger much to my chagrin.

Saturday, I went to a board game day nearby. Got some unknown calls and even a knock on my door but when I went to check on who was there they were gone. I texted the lawyer about the sheriff and she finally got back to me on what he wanted. I dunno how much I should post but lets just say I'm not going to be in contact with my wife for a while. Makes me think I should just let the lawyer handle everything. :-/ On the upside I stayed out until 2am playing games and making friends.

Sunday went to church and came back home to take care of things. Cleaning, laundry, playing with the cats and a bit of relaxing.

Back to work today. I found out some item I ordered last week never arrived over the weekend because there was an issue with the address. I've been noticing I haven't received a single piece of mail for like 1-2 months now. I checked with the USPS to make sure there wasn't anything wrong and they found nothing on their end. But it's just one more thing I need to take care of.

Anyways, just wanted to journal a bit and let everyone know I'm still putting one foot in front of the other. I'll have to get to Wonka's posts in another response.