What's wrong with us huh? Why can we never just be grateful for what we've got. I'm moaning and bitching away on my thread because my H is too mushy and keeps wanting to ML when I don't feel like it and wishing we could have more proper conversations. And here you are feeling happy as a pig in muck except for not getting any loving. You know what? I bet within a couple of months we will probably trade places.
My only answer to your problem is do a 180. It seems to be the only thing that works. Any hint that you desire him at all should be completely squashed. If he touches you then gently move his hand away etc. This is what is working for me except it is not a deliberate 180, I just happen to feel that way at the moment and voila! H is interested ALL the time - LOL.
we are such a fickle lot (humans I mean!)
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
