I agree, Heavy. And I've seen every side of the "worry about friend zone" argument, so not sure where I stand on that. See both sides.

With this being my last week, I'm trying to be as cordial as I can and again, allow myself to be myself in reacting to HER interactions, not pursuing or initiating on my own. I don't flirt with her or give her much reassurance at all. In fact, when she asked about "are these shorts too short to go out in?" I responded with "I'm not sure, but where what you're comfortable with. It doesn't matter to me what you wear."


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23