Quote: Your H does not cherish you as you deserve and need to be cherished. in his own way he does You cannot make him love you I cannot make him love me but he does, he just doesn't love me in the ways I'd like to be loved on occassion and that I can't make him do. and I know that you ask if he is capable of truely giving himself to you. I think he is capable just don't think he thinks he's capable Only you can tell. damned if I know