Wife having emotional affair 6

[3kids]

Just an update and some feed back if possible.

So I got a call from the stbxw yesterday asking if her and the kids could come to my place while I was at work for a couple of hours before exchange. I didn't ask questions and said ok not a problem. Come to find out the kids where absolutely terrible for her(her words). They totally disprspected her and her mom. The young two would not listen to her one bit. And the oldest started screaming at her. They where working on a project for his school and she started arguing with him and he let her have it. "How are you going to ever help me you can't even handle your own school and pass it. You can't handle us." And on and on. She started screaming at him and then her mom stepped in. And told her how awful of parent she is and on and on. And the stbxw went off on her mom tell her she learnt from the best and who is she to tell her anything. So at the end of the convo, the stbxw tries to tell me it's kind of my fault because the kids have no rules at my place. I stopped her right there and told her I never have those probablems here and don't disprspect me by telling me I'm a bad parent, my kids respect me and listen to me. And asked her to leave.

I did talk to the kids after she left and found out they are kind of sick of her acting like the best mom in the world infront of OM. When in their words "she's not". It was their first weekend with their mom and the most they did all weekend long was to to a movie with her and not play one second. They don't like being crammed into grandmas little place. And they just had a awful weekend and are happy to be back at home with me. I didn't put any bad thoughts about their mom in their little heads but I never defended her one second.

Would you say I could have handled this any better. I'm really just trying to just stay neutral till the divorce is final. So I don't have any back lash in court. I've come to the conclusion that this new woman is not even close to the woman I fell in love with. So I don't see any possible reconsilation with her. Day after day she is getting worse and worse with my kids.

Thanks for any feedback!
3kids