Tulo, I echo what Pyrite says. It's so important to keep with the PMA :-)
Take care, Smothy.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
So, he made contact. Good start, but remember, I've just been temp checked and followed the rules by not reacting strongly, no excitedness, playin it cool.
It's gonna take more than a call to get you back - right?
Keep it strong. Difficult days ahead I think.
Have a good day.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
You are al so right.. He's not getting me back, he doesn't even show me any signs that he wants me back, just like normally friendly.
Feeling lot less + today, but I hope I can turn it around. I'm taking my dogs our for a swim in the river now, and then off to town for a coffee with a friend and then an hour with a counsellor.. (She is someone I see because I've had a dangerous stalker after me for over 3 years, who now is in the loony bin but still I have to reverse some of the feelings he left with me feeling scared and at threat. It doesn't just go away, even though he's looked up tight.) I think we'll talk a little bit about this with ex too, and I already know what she's going to say..
Give him space, move on, you'll be fine either way. I know she's right but today is one of them lonely days. Got to get my focus back to Saturdays race, and the feeling of being strong! I'm going to get there!
Thank you all for your posts. I'm gonna start a new tread later on today and post the link here.. Truly thankful for your support, feel I really need it in this mess!
Hugs to you all!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
