Hi Edz. Sounds like a great day. please take this next bit as its meant , you come accross a wee bit pushy in your convos with W. You seem to constantly tell her not to feel pressure and if she wants to go home and come back , etc.
This is all happening very fast Edz , only a few months back you would have killed to be half way here. I' e be telling you this is going to happen for a while now because as an outsider in your sitch I can look at it a bit more dispassionately. Your W wants you back but she is still scared. she is coming forward at 100mph but is holding back that small percent. She talking about where you will live yet she won't stay over all the time yet.
Edz. Youve done fantastic work on you , your R with S and now you going to be a great H and dad. This is happening and the end is in sight BUT please relax back from the constant reassuring W about your intentions. It's not your words or verbal intentions that got you here it's your actions. If You perceive Ws body language to be a certain way then thats what it is , your perception If W tells you she wants to go then fine Let this happen in a natural way. 80% Edz. If W sends you links then great. Comment , voice your opinion but don't rush out and book to see them. ( that's an Analogue ). By the same token don't say the houses are great but if it L's too soon for you to view them W then we won't because ................. I hope I'm being clear Edz. You've done your work and are continuing to do it , let W work through this in her time frame
I'm sending positive thoughts your way Edz. Take care. Rd
