Hey V and Lisa,

Yes I am happy that I recognise the red flags now right away. I have not gone on anymore dates. I think the guy from my last date realizes I was not interested in any more dates. Lol

Just enjoying life at present. Keeping busy. Had an amazing Mothers Day last weekend with all my adult children. I received beautiful flowers as well as chocolates....lovely.

I have had a couple of interactions with STBX. He picked up SD last weekend after Mothers Day dinner. He came in and was chatting. He ate SD and my leftovers...lol Again gave me a hug goodbye when they left. Today I picked up SD for a visit and he invited me in and was chatting. I am just being myself. Chatting and being friendly in a friend like way. He gave SD and I both hugs as we left. I took her to the Beach for dinner and we enjoyed a beautiful view from a patio. Then back to my place for a movie and sleepover. I will keep her most of tomorrow and return her in the evening to her Dad. He doesn't know anything about my dating life. I don't let on about anything. I just make sure I look great and leave it at that. Lol I can tell he's try to keep some connection with me. Silly boy.

It's after midnight here..,,I better grab some zzzzzzz. Until my next adventure lol GNite all


Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.