Nah...didn't seem sleazy at the time. He didn't say "we could get a hotel" - I'd have stopped the convo there if so. He was suggesting I could get a hotel. I'd have thought nothing of it were it not for the fact that there were a lot of compliments and other nuanced stuff in the conversation.

One thing it did highlight is, having been with one guy for so long, I feel like I don't know how to take compliments on my appearance from other men. Is it a sign that they're game if I am, or do some men just compliment random ladies and not mean anything more by it?


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014