Originally Posted By: skhdive
H text and wanted to know if s and I wanted lunch. I said sure but now I am thinking maybe I should just send my S and I shouldn't go because this won't help me detach. Need advice or rules on what to do when this happens. Anyone? 25 years?


Go. Put the "Positive Helmet" on so that nothing your h says or does can bother you b/c it is only one evening. There is no cause for you to object or criticize a thing. If he says or does something, look at it in the most favorable light possible for this one evening.

It's an opportunity to demonstrate change in you. Any 180s come to mind?

After this, you can accept maybe half the invites but don't reject the first one or two.

Okay?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change