The "talk" scheduled for Saturday..

[Tulo]

Tulo, re: the NC rule

It hurts me everytime. And it is really hard to reply - adhering to NC.

There is no reason to think that she would now, or even that her and her BF would not be having a good laugh while they read it together.

At least by stepping backwards you give them the space to move forwards, and it saves you your dignity.

I wish I had have applied this months ago.

godnatt

Ohh, you are already developing greatly in the Swedish language, I'm very impressed!
Sov gott!

I know it hurts like hell and must be very difficult to do NC while having to keep in touch due to kids. But your strategy seems to be a good one and as you say, at least you can hold on to your dignity as you are in contact with her.
If she and her BF laugh at your emails, I think they are horrible horrible people and in that case I don't think she should EVER get you back! No 2.0 for her, I say!!

How fun that you are in Melbourne! I've only been there once, and then due to very sad circumstance as my friend was dying of cancer, but what I got to see I loved! Definitely coming back before long! We could have a DB meeting, to compare notes or talk about how very much in love we are with some totally wonderful people who are so 2.5 that our exes seems like very 1.0!

I just wrote to Smothy that he called me tonight and I kept it light and bubbly all the way through. My mum always said when I grew up that "Keep a sweet face in evil play" and I did my best.

I understand that you feel like you wish you had all these "rules" a long time ago. But we are only human and we all do the best we can and we learn and move on, hopefully not doing the same mistakes next time.

Hope you have a great day tomorrow, I'm just about to go to sleep! Godnatt till dig från mig!