There is nothing to explain. If she's willing to break her marital vows by inviting a predatory third party into her life, ending the partnership that god gave the two of you to cherish, and destroying a family...I don't think telling her "this isn't fair" is going to turn her around.
And I am not looking to turn her around. I would just like for her to go. I would like for her to see that it is fair for her to leave.
Is it best? I believe so, she does not.
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015