I'll defer to sandi, but imo and I'm no expert, if it involves the kids and u agreed to it, what's the harm in a one sentence text and then go dark?

That way she can accuse u of lying or punishing her and you would expect her to do what you agree to with them, right?

M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23