hold on! - 10

[u-turn]

You mentioned a lot of what she said during the conversation. Starsky has a lot of good talking points about 'truth darts', I think it would've been a good idea to basically tell her that's what she was doing, and that she could twist things and point blame on you, but she was 100% accountable for her choices and they were destroying a family and nothing you wanted any part of.

Thank Zues - I in fact learned much here and did throw these truth darts at her. I did not sit quietly and listen to her (as I made it sound). I told her that this was happening because of her decisions. I did not make her have an affair - that was her decision. We ARE still married. That this is disrespectful to me and THE KIDS (she hated that one). and that this was not my idea to take apart our family this way.

This was the most that I have talked to her in a couple months, but none of this seemed to phase her.

I did learn (again) that there is no saving this marriage. We both know it, but she wants to continue with her path, she also does not want end the marriage. I don't care what she does, I just want her to do it away from here.

I don't know what my next move will be. I will likely push her some more.

Thanks zues