Hi lovely Pink. It sounds like you did really well. H came over and you were pleasant, but you just went about living your own life - good for you. Even when he looked all sad, and was perhaps hoping for something more from you, you didn't give that. Good - that is you being full of respect for yourself and letting him know that whilst he's messing about with OW, you won't be there for him as a W.

Interesting that things have perhaps cooled a little. But, I wouldn't take much notice of anything much he says just now, and carry on as you are. It's important not to look over your shoulder and think - is this making a difference? If you are acting 'as if' you are truly moving forward alone, and if H wants to catch up, you can be sure he will.

It's a long weekend here next weekend too. I'm going out with a new friend this Saturday night (the one whose H was unfaithful and she changed the locks.) Then GALing at the book store and also seeing SS and his Mum - should be nice....

Have a good day Pink xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus