We haven't communicated before but I saw your reference to the movie on TV. Did you ever see the movie with Ted Danson and his real life W Mary Stuart Masterson? I forget the name, I'll have to look for it at home, I have it on tape I think.
They are a couple on verge of D, they take a drive together to work out the details and they get stuck in a snowstorm. You guessed it, they work it all out. They stay together and what is really enlightening is that they both started out sure that what they were doing was right. Interesting how these made for TV movies are. All it took was some time together and and two open minds.