Keep bringing them out of the woodwork. Bethie has been sick, TonyP stopped in to say Hi, I've missed you having a home of your own to stop in for a chat now & then.
We haven't communicated before but I saw your reference to the movie on TV. Did you ever see the movie with Ted Danson and his real life W Mary Stuart Masterson? I forget the name, I'll have to look for it at home, I have it on tape I think.
They are a couple on verge of D, they take a drive together to work out the details and they get stuck in a snowstorm. You guessed it, they work it all out. They stay together and what is really enlightening is that they both started out sure that what they were doing was right. Interesting how these made for TV movies are. All it took was some time together and and two open minds.
Where have you been? Hope this is good news, spending more time with spouse?
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Hope all is well.
all is well. My not posting much IS indeed a sign that I am spending more time with h and living life in general. AND enjoying it!
There are several people I've been meaning to check in with but admit feeling a tad overwhelmed when I pop in to their threads and see so much going on that I can't simply offer my typical "on the fly", "in the moment" advice so refrain until I can read back what's going on and then find myself caught in a never ending battle of catch up.
H and I are going out to dinner and a movie tonight and I have spoken to a neighbor girl who has started a babysitting service...we want to book her for every other sat to ensure us some US time...even if we only use it to run out for a quiet bite to eat and a trip to home depot.