I asked about the time of the D process because during this time some realities start showing up. I am sure that some toughs will hit your H and lets see what he does with his life during this time.
Besides the fact that if he is in MLC, we never know when he will snap back into normal mode.
You are doing all the right things for yourself and also for him. He should be thankful that you are not driving him crazy.
Please, be sure to eat and sleep well, you have a lot on your plate right now, and it can be overwhelming at times.
