I had a friend who got the wrong idea about something and I tried to make it up by chatting/buying a present. Well, it didn't work and so, I decided, I didn't need the pain, so went dark on her.
What do you know, three months later, she got in contact apologising etc. and we again the best of friends.
So, apply that to our current predicament and who knows. The stakes are higher, sure, but if they want us, they'll have to make the effort to get us.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015