Tulo - I've done the exact same FB dance. I'd send a text, see it not answered then see my W as "active now" or active since I sent the text and get sad that I wasn't important. Or see that she was active at 2 AM and wonder if she was talking to someone or just up and bored flipping through it. It drove me crazy.
So I deleted my messenger thread with her, stopped checking that to see her activity times. I deleted the FB app from my phone, but I'll probably put it back on at some point.
All that is to say, we've all been there. And it [censored]. And it hurts. So the only way to make it better is to stop looking at it. Me checking her activity and getting hurt by her not talking to me is something I did to myself. The only outcome of looking at it is me getting hurt - it isn't going to change what she does.
So now, I just imagine she's always "active now" and I don't need to bother with looking at it.
