Hi Complex, I'm sorry to hear that things are heading towards D for you guys. It sounds as though your W is trying her best to be decent about things - even though her choices recently haven't been all that great.

So, are you guys starting counselling soon then? And will the focus of counselling just be to have an amicable D? How do you feel about that??

Glad to hear you are making some holiday plans. Keep posting and let us know how things go....

(((Complex)))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus