Hi Arcola, I'm so sorry to hear that.....as Cadet always says, the ultimate decision is yours and if you haven't yet made that ultimate decision, there is always hope. Only you can decide what you want to do. If you are truly done, and can move on in peace knowing you gave your all to try and save your M, then I wish you well indeed.

As others have said, sometimes once we truly let go, the fear of losing us starts to bite and things can turn - but who knows.

If you keep the focus on you and being the best Dad you can be, you can't go wrong IMHO. Keep posting my friend....

T :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus