Thanks Pink (my secret agent sister) I think I'm too open sometimes with people and should probably play my cards a little closer to my chest. As far as I know, the D process takes a minimum of six months here. I plan to email my L this week and instruct that a letter be sent to H to start the financial part off. If he chooses to file for D, that's on him.
RD, thanks so much. You are very kind, and yes I'm sure I'll be okay. Like you I worry whether/how I could trust someone else, but I guess it is still eary days for us both. I do know that if you and your W don't R, it would be a shame to deny some other lovely woman the pleasure of your love and company.
Job, thanks for the reminder. A new thread is underway, and here's a link...
