The "talk" scheduled for Saturday..

[Tulo]

Sound wonderful with walks by the beach on your lunch. What country are you in? Oz?

I also see that Zeus has come a long way compared to where I am. I know I'll get there, I just don't feel that I'll get there.

I'm only on the newcomers forum at the moment, but wonder about this with NC. They say that it's a way to create space for your self but also for the other person to be able to think and start to miss you.. Has anyone here have that actually work? It feels very unnatural as many has pointe out, but it is the best way to get over someone, I'm sure. But is all this with NC as a way for them to miss us, really just a way to soften up the blow?

I find it easier to cope with this when I talk to him about just ordinary stuff, and if it already is a done deal that we never will get back together maybe I should do what is best for me and let the contact fizzle out instead of turning of cold turkey. He has said he's not going anywhere and that I can call anytime, but I don't want that since I don't want to be a pain to him..

Agh, I'm rambling on and on.. Got a feeling I'm going to have one of those days..

I feel exactly the same as you, how can they just move on so easily when on our end it's so hard?

And I hope the good feeling with being in control will come when I am anyway near any sign of having a shred of it..

One week in from "the talk" and a few more weeks sine trouble first reared it's ugly head. Think I need more time...

Big hug to you from me.. And THANKS for replying!