What just happened? Kramer's journey continues

[Kramer]

Sandi,

I agree with everything you have said. I believe that she may be sad and perhaps sorry, but definitely not remorseful at this point. I used the very phrases that you advocated and did not mention working on the relationship at all. I filled her in on what was happening with the kids and grandchildren, and was upbeat and positive. No snide answers, sad face, crying, or pleading. I did, however, stroke her ego and told her that I disagreed with OM assessment. I should not have done that.

I need to be more mysterious and unavailable, and really need to increase my GAL. This little bread crumb felt good, but you're right. It was simply to make herself feel better. Back to radio silence, GAL, and self pro cements. If she calls again, I will be more careful and not get sucked in.