I'm sorry to hear things didn't go well today. I agree with Defacto's last 2 posts. Do not be her "Plan B."
Although my case is different that yours, (she is living 3 1/2 hrs away w/her Mom) I have "Gone Dark" which, as Sandi pointed out, means NO contact whatsoever. We have no children together, but 3 each from previous marriages. (it's in my sig)
I haven't contacted her in almost 3 weeks. The last time she did, it was a text a little over 2 weeks ago about an AT&T bill. I never replied. This is a definite 180 for me.
It's hard to remember all she has said in the past 6+ months, but it finally hit me that, if she couldn't make it on her own (she has MS) I am her backup plan - Plan B.
Just like Defacto, that motivated me to truly stick with NC, have a PMA and GAL. Also, all of you guys helped, too.
Does all this make any sense, Rip, or am I just rambling on? LOL
I can tell how much your M means to you and you are a great guy.
Hang in there mister.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
