Hi Toots you are doing fine and the time frame is yours to control. Im late chiming in but as usual Jim was there with solid advice. The wording of text was spot on and got across what you wanted. I agree with you that you didjt want to mention it so why would you ? I get why your worried about pushing H but you've made it clear to him a while ago that D is not what you want. Until he comes out of fog then I don't think it really matters what you say !!!!
Toots you are an example to us all re the DBIng and your fantastic response when BD was dropped on you
Your standing for your M and only you will decide how long for. I really hope your H comes around before it's too late for him because Toots wll be very happy again
