Originally Posted By: Ripken8
She is going on a trip with another man but says she finds herself fighting through being comfortable, meaning being with me. I move out next week. Her emotions are going to be tough. I'm worried my expectations will come with any sign.

Sure thing, you are comfortable to her. You're the plan B right now. I don't know about you but when I realized this in my own sitch, it became the single greatest motivator for me to get my sh!t together. You are nobody's plan B, Ripken.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15