sounds counter-intuitive, but snooping really doesnt help. All it does is crank up your emotions. If you snoop and find nothing, you convince yourself that she's hiding them or deleting them. If you do find something, how will this help your DB quest? All it does is drag your mental state down.
Hang in there; if there is an EA going on, you need to be strong and be her friend. You need to be a better friend than he is.
Bill.
"you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant
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