TLEE86 Part IV

[Vanilla]

TLee

there is plenty of time for change. Take that challenge become a man only a fool would leave.

I go round agreeing with Toots, now its with Z. There are women like Z, Gg and V who have been badly abused and who still have the capacity to forgive.

Please understand that some forms abuse can be forgiven, neglect being one. In this I agree with Z, in this we look at intention, some abusers deliberately abuse, others do so because it profits them. However, this type are largely unable to change, they are willful and lack love and respect. They are unable to adjust and do not feel the need to change. Tlee this is NOT you. The best you can do is change and grow for yourself, you have made an amazing start in this change.

You are standing for your M. This is a wonderful thing for you to do for yourself. I think you are on point here with your validating and leaving the path home smooth.

I wholly agree with Z and she has wonderful insight through personal experience.

V