Looks like you are doing really well .... picked up the DB'ing pretty quickly . I think it is wonderful that you are concentrating on yourself and your kids. The W will notice you pulling away, and you will definitely start looking more attractive to her, plus you will feel much better.
I am so jealous that you are going to Italy. That is the next place on my list to visit. I am a travel hound, if i could find a way to make a career of it, i would. Have you been to Spain? My whole family is from there, and i lived there for 2 years when i graduated from university. Europeans have such a wonderful attitude about life.
Sorry about that digression, i hear about travel, and it gets my brain going. Make sure to have an awesome time, and send your W a postcard describing your awesome adventure.
Drop by my sitch when you get a chance. Hugs Helen
Should you meet resistance, take comfort - it's a great way to build muscle
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. I think it is wonderful that you are concentrating on yourself and your kids. The W will notice you pulling away, and you will definitely start looking more attractive to her, plus you will feel much better. 
