There has not been much to post as far as R goes as it has been a quiet week with H working later are going to gym.
However, some good GALing this week. Organized a happy hour with fellow bootcampers on Wednesday and last night went out with work colleagues. Lost another 5 lbs to boot!
This morning I was greated very cheerfully by H. I was going to head out to walk the dog and he invited himself along. I then said I was running to Costco and he decided he wanted to go to. H has not run an errand with me in weeks. Not sure what is up, but we had a nice time together for half the day. Still no communication H via text or other during the work week to check in, but maybe still too soon.
Contemplating letting go conversation with H this weekend per suggestion of someone else. Has anyone else tried this with their wayward spouse? Here is a sample:
H, I have been doing some thinking and I realize that I have been selfish in trying to convince you to stay in a marriage where you are unhappy. I know now that I cannot continue to try and control the outcome of this and I need to let you go and allow you to make your own choices. Really all I want is for you to be happy.
In addition, would continue LRT, GAL, etc.
Any thoughts on saying this to my H?
Last edited by BW05; 05/16/1506:39 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
